(HLH) Hooker Life Hack #15: If you make contact with a guy online, and he uses sexually explicit language before you meet face to face he is not serious about meeting

HLH: Hooker Life Hack #15

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Thursday, January 10, 2019, 11:02 a.m. Hawaii Time, edited March 1, 2019

Hooker Life Hack #15–One Sure, Albeit Surprising, Sign He is Being Dishonest About Planning to Meet Up

When you are making plans to spend time with a male there are signs that he will not show up at the appointed hour.  I was surprised to learn through experience that when I was in the process of setting up appointments through a phone call or text, the man did not intend to show up if he used vulgar and sexually explicit language.  I had imagined that if it was unspoken but understood that we would engage in adult behavor, I should reasonably expect suggestive or even lewd language from the male as a sort of warm up.  However, lewd language was not a prelude but a show of disrespect. 

No vulgar man ever followed through on his stated plans . He always stood me up, without notice.

Explicit language has an appropriate time and place. It  also has an appropriate Target. If you don't know him because you met him online, and he starts talking dirty to you, watch out! here is a surprise  Oh, I thought if I was setting up an adult Rendezvous then it made sense if he used explicit language. That sounds logical, doesn't it? I was wrong.  If a guy you don't know talks dirty to you, especially before he meets you, nothing good ever comes of said meeting.  First of all he probably is not really serious about meeting you. After all, keeping appointments is a form of respect and his purpose for making contact is to enjoy verbally abusing a provider, not to spend time.

The take away action recommendation: politely correct his language by saying you are standards for phone contact that you follow. There was one, yes only one, instance when the man did not realize how he sounded and he accepted my correction. The rest of the times my gentle correction was rebuffed. Do not let him (or anyone under any circumstance) to convince you that you deserve to be spoken to with vulgarity or that you should expect lewd talk because you are asking to be treated badly. No good ever results from allowing someone to speak to you disrespectfully. Be sure to set the proper example with your own manner of speech! Posted on November 2, 2018January 24, 2019 by theexpertescort · 1 Comment · Edit

Prostitution As a Cure For Lonliness

I, Caroleena, the Expert Escort, have made the claim that you should read what I write because my cringing honesty is unique. I will tell you things I’d rather you not know. For example, one embarrassing fact is that there were many days that the only social interaction I had was with tricks. When I was not working, I missed the people. I was completely alone.  I did not have any friends. Nor did I have acquaintances who were not in the life. Giving up prostitution meant making unexpected sacrifices. It made me sad. Posted on April 22, 2017April 22, 2017 by theexpertescort · Edit


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, January 10, 2019, 11:02 a.m. Hawaii Time

Hooker Life Hack #15–One Sure, Albeit Surprising, Sign He is Being Dishonest About Planning to Meet Up

When you are making plans to spend time with a male there are signs that he will not show up at the appointed hour.  I was surprised to learn through experience that when I was in the process of setting up appointments through a phone call or text, the man did not intend to show up if he used vulgar and sexually explicit language.  I had imagined that if it was unspoken but understood that we would engage in adult behavor, I should reasonably expect suggestive or even lewd language from the male as a sort of warm up.  However, lewd language was not a prelude but a show of disrespect. 

No vulgar man ever followed through on his stated plans . He always stood me up, without notice.

Explicit language has an appropriate time and place but if he uses this language to set up an x-rated rendezvous, he is not serious about following through with the plans.  After all, keeping appointments is a form of respect and his purpose for making contact is to enjoy verbally abusing a provider, not to spend time.

The take away action recommendation: politely correct his language by saying you are standards for phone contact that you follow. There was one, yes only one, instance when the man did not realize how he sounded and he accepted my correction. The rest of the times my gentle correction was rebuffed. Do not let him (or anyone under any circumstance) to convince you that you deserve to be spoken to with vulgarity or that you should expect lewd talk because you are asking to be treated badly. No good ever results from allowing someone to speak to you disrespectfully. Be sure to set the proper example with your own manner of speech! Posted on November 2, 2018January 24, 2019 by theexpertescort · 1 Comment · Edit

Prostitution As a Cure For Lonliness

I, Caroleena, the Expert Escort, have made the claim that you should read what I write because my cringing honesty is unique. I will tell you things I’d rather you not know. For example, one embarrassing fact is that there were many days that the only social interaction I had was with tricks. When I was not working, I missed the people. I was completely alone.  I did not have any friends. Nor did I have acquaintances who were not in the life. Giving up prostitution meant making unexpected sacrifices. It made me sad. Posted on April 22, 2017April 22, 2017 by theexpertescort · Edit

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